Abuse and Rape Crisis Shelter of Warren County

Are you in an ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP?

RATE YOUR MATE

Just complete the following quick test.

Scoring:

• Frequently = 3 pts
• Sometimes = 2 pts
• Rarely = 1 pt
• Never  = 0 pts

Determine how often your "mate" does each of the following using the point scale above.

Does the Person You Love . . . . .

1. "Track" all of your time?                                                                     _____ pts
2. Discourage other relationships with friends or family?                  _____ pts
3. Humiliate you in front of others?                                                        _____ pts
4. Have extreme mood changes?                                                         _____ pts
5. Anger easily when drinking or on drugs?                                         _____ pts
6. Accuse you of being unfaithful?                
7.  _____ pts

                                                      Subtotal Score:  ____________ 

Has the Person You Love Ever . . . . .

                                                             Total Score:  _____________

What your score indicates:

 0 - 5       You are not in an abusive relationship.

6 - 12      Your relationship has the potential for violence.

12 - 31    You are in a seriously abusive relationship.  Consider seeking

                help NOW.

32 - 54    You are in a dangerously abusive situation.  Your life is in

                 jeopardy.  Get help NOW.

WOULD YOU LIKE HELP OR MORE INFORMATION?

Call the Abuse and Rape Crisis Shelter of Warren County.  A staff member or trained volunteer is available to:

• Talk with you confidentially
• Provide emergency shelter
• Provide you with Legal Advocacy and Court Accompaniment 

• Lebanon     513-695-1107
• Cincinnati    513-925-1107
• Dayton       937-425-1107
• Franklin      937-261-1107
• Toll Free Crisis Hotline  1-888-869-8048
  

Remember:  You have a right to say "no" to anything that is unsafe or violates your values.